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I think it was pretty good! Although I can't say that I was overjoyed that they ended up together in the end, which is kinda strange for a rom com. Their relationship didn't read as if they knew one another super well. I hope they have some more time and some therapy before they tie the knot.

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Nov 27, 2020Liked by Dame Sophie, Dame Margaret

At the end of the day, as a queer woman who’s comfort movies include The Family Stone and Dan in Real Life , I kind of loved it. It is Not Ideal but I was expecting much worse. There are also a lot of people who I think forget the very real terror of coming out and/or being a gay kid. Not an excuse but also not an indictment

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I enjoyed it but felt like the movie wasn't sure who the main character was. I wish it was two separate movies, one about Abby and Harper's relationship and a separate one about Harper's family

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Nov 27, 2020Liked by Dame Sophie

also I live alone and getting to sort of "watch" this movie with other people was lovely so thanks for setting this up, dames

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I really like this movie! it def has flaws but as a lifelong fan of romantic movies, there's uhhhh a lot of questionable behavior in them and I still enjoy them haha

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listen. I liked it

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they did so well making this fantasy book as fantasy as possible through the small bits we got

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This book reading!!!

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YES JANE!

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The primary thing this movie shows me is how remarkably good The Family Stone is

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Do you think the dad was visited by three Christmas spirits?

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dad's christmas speech is.. not wildly impressive to me. sort of a low bar.

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As a fantasy nerd, I want to hear so much more about Jane's book!

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OH MY GOD IS DAN GOING TO GET JANE'S BOOK PUBLISHED

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What did John mouth to Abby??

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I love that poison and also the therapist

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Nov 27, 2020Liked by Dame Margaret

Omg they’re in A LOVES

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Nov 27, 2020Liked by Dame Margaret

OH MY god honey ofc that's not enough wth

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I'm really mad because I saw a great tweet yesterday that was like "only lesbians would make a movie about intense emotional suffering and name it Happiest Season" because that is perfect

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OH. MY. GOD.

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I actually really liked that talk

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Ugh be is so good

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EHHHHHHHHHH IDK Idk about this take

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I really like John's speech here

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Well that was A Choice, writers

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Jane is the fanciest!

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The painting!!!! Nooooo

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DOING THAT TO JANE'S PAINTING????????

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Ooooohhh Harper you messed up

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It’s a lovely painting!

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OH DAMN

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Dan

Levy

acting

Straight

-- EVERYTHING

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I hear Harper here. But! She still certainly did not need to be spending every moment with Connor?

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SHE DID IT OH GLORY BE WHEW!!!

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THANK GOD FOR JOHN!!!!

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Nov 27, 2020Liked by Dame Sophie

WHAT AN ENTRANCE

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YESSSSS

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DAN

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“She’s our super-mom” is the worst thing Harper’s dad says in this movie. The condescension!

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COULD Abby look ANY GAYER

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Now who’s keeping tabs girlllll

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the best outfit of the movie is hereeeeee

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I love that Abby still has this dream of bonding with Harper’s dad.

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I would like them to die in a fire, I think????

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wow I really hate this family!!!!!!!!!!!

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God Kristen Stewart is such a good actress I FUME when people say otherwise

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And Dan Levy remains the best!!

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this family is terrible!!!!!!!

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I think I've been on both sides of this conversation and it kinda makes me ill to watch. They did a good job with that.

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this scene makes me suspicious about how long harper and connor actually dated but that might just be me

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