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Oof, did I need to read this. I didn't realise I was pansexual until two years ago when I was watching Love Island and developed huge crushes on two of the female contestants (yes, Love Island helped me discover my sexuality). I got crushes on people in general so rarely, had only ever had one girl crush before, and married a guy, so I just always assumed the girl crush didn't count, that that side of me wasn't valid. Since then, I've started to come to terms with my sexuality and it gets a little bit easier every day (and my partner is supportive and awesome), but this helped me more than words can say. Thank you for making me feel seen and less alone. x

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